Warning: Long Post, and no humour.
This actually started out as a comment on QI’s post as a reply to Ketan’s comment. Especially, this part of the comment: “…How years of repression and poverty, makes any average person lust for power and money. How we as peoples have been attaching too much importance to perceived superiority. How we all bow down before authority with utmost respect without pausing even once to think if that respect is even deserved! We are slaves to ‘image’ as against any real substance. This creates in everyone, a desire to subjugate others, exploit them, and ‘feel’ superior to them…”
I’ve thought about stuff like this a lot of times. About what is the use of complaining and not doing anything about it; About what can we possible do; About how will an average Indian change? Just, why have we started proving Darwin’s theory of ‘Survival of the fittest’ so right? Ketan’s posts have helped me in making my thoughts more coherent so if you find this rant a little too crazy, you know who to blame.
Though it might just be just another crazy tangent but I think, the most important thing that we could do to make a lot of difference is to raise children with morals. I’ve seen children grow up in the neighbourhood in India with absolutely no idea about morals or about empathy, and I don’t get it. I don’t understand why all our education or rather schooling does is to teach us how to be successful. (Though there could be further debate on whether the schooling does even that, but let’s not digress.) I don’t understand why the parents and teachers don’t dedicate some time to teach children that life is not about having ‘things’ or life isn’t only about scoring high marks or being successful in life.
Life is about being good – being good to your classmates, being good to your neighbours, being respectful to every human being including the maid in your house, the janitor who cleans your bathrooms and even the dumb guy in your team who doesn’t know how to hold a bat.
All parents teach kids is study well or else you’ll fail and then you’ll become like this good for nothing uncle of yours sitting at the pan shop whole day. Study well and then you’ll get a good job with a fat salary and then you can buy expensive cars. Be brave, if someone hits you, don’t come back crying.
If kids make fun of another kid, they feel nothing. Kids just want to hop on their elder sister’s Scooty and zoom away to show off their friends as soon as they can grow up. They want to have the new shoe that has just been launched and the newest video game on the stores. Why?
Coz. they’ve seen their parents doing this all their life; slowly working their way from a small house to a big bungalow, from a scooter to a car. No, there is nothing wrong in improving your standard of living but just for once, consider the cost of uninhibited capitalistic greed on the society. I don’t have a problem with big and expensive cars but I’ve a problem with the feeling that there’s nothing more in life than being successful and success is only measured by the money you make, the car you drive and the brands you wear; That children go to school only to get a career and be even richer than their parents; That life is fun only when you own the latest Xbox or PS2 and the kid who has it all is the most luckiest kid in the class. And Parents take pride in fulfilling every wish of their child – “My son should have everything that I didn’t have when I was a kid.” Just stop and think – What kind of generation are we bringing up?
The standard of living of an average Indian has multiplied a number of times compared to when I was a kid. Majority of all the students in my class today are richer and more well off than when we were in school. And that can be said to be a sign of success of each one of them as well as the progress of the country. But with this success comes the sense of superiority. The feeling that “I’ve arrived and have done so on my own” but where is the sense of social responsibility, the sense of giving back to society? What would a parent then pass on to his/her kids? Obviously, the most important bit of their life that is – How to be successful? But who will teach their kids that it’s ok if you don’t have a lot of money? It is not the end of the world if you can’t buy a car. Why does this success bring in a superiority complex in front of those class mates who may not be as successful? Maybe because they were not good at maths or English or accounts or maybe because they did not get the opportunity as their parents could not afford to send them to college.
I guess we are just numb – numb with greed and numb of others suffering because we hardly can fulfil our own needs. We want so much – so much is available – is out there that we can see on TV but still can’t possess or own. “I just have to buy a Bentley before I retire, I just have to go for an international vacation once every year, I love the caffee latte at Starbucks.”
Every human organism in the society right from the lowest levels to the richest man in the country wants more. We slog for as many hours as possible in a day to be successful and those who slog it out are respected as hard workers and highly successful Industrialists. But why has life only become about earning and then spending whatever you earn? Have you seen one person (and that is including me and you) who thinks he has enough money and he doesn’t need any more to buy the next desirable object on his list? The sole purpose of life has become to buy, consume and buy more and nobody really does anything except for the want of money in return so that he can buy more things.
Take for instance doctors – Why does a kid grow up to be a doctor these days? Is it to contribute to the health and well being of society? Is it really to relieve the pain and suffering of a fellow human?
Take teachers – Who today has is really interested in becoming a teacher? Who thinks that I want to teach kids and make a difference in their lives? But everybody is though interested in opening tuition / coaching classes – Why?
Every lucrative profession becomes a hit with kids passing out of their boards, first it was Doctors and Engineers, then it was MBAs, later it became CA. It doesn’t matter what you like doing coz. at the end of the day, with hard work you’ll succeed. This is what our teachers and parents tell us. And with success we mean only and only the monetary kind.
Capitalism may have been a great tool to unite the world, make it a smaller place, but if we do not maintain a balance in our lives and continue to spoil ourselves silly with things, we then cannot be blaming the state of the country or our politicians. After all, at the end of the day, it is only about having more money. If we do not give our kids a set of morals and values, they’ll be blown away with the desire to have more and more and still want more.
I guess, if we are to see a positive change in society, we have to start looking at the future generation. We have to start telling them that all those advertisements on TV are just advertisements. They don’t mean the world. We have to teach them that it is ok if you are not among the top 5 in class. Daddy doesn’t really crave for that new car, a new t-shirt is not important and NO – YOU WILL NOT HAVE THAT LATEST PLAY STATION JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE HAS IT AND YOU LIKE IT.
wonderful post.. loved it
one can tell that you just let your thoughts flow on this one
only if every parent could think alike and motivate the child to be ‘successful’
and dont you think its mostly Indians who that! I dont usually generalise but this is what I have noticed. But thankfully things are changing, its not as bad as it was when we were in school
me: Actually, I think it is far worse now. Generally %ages have increased and kids these days are under a lot of pressure to score more and more. I agree that in the western world, we might see less of this pressure but the problem of consumerism is still plaguing the whole world.
oooh.. first comment YAY *Birdy dance* :))
me: 🙂
Oh you warned, so need to return later. Btw, by 1st 2 lines, I remember that post and read few comments… will be back… rushing now…
Rakesh,
I’m suprised and honored at the same time that my idea and blog find mention on your post. So, thanks (for the blame)!
I can’t believe I’ve spoiled you enough to make you publish an entire post in response to a small comment! 😛
I agree with almost everything that you write, so would only comment on where I disagree or where I want to add something. So in the end, if it seems like I’ve disagreed a lot, it’d only be because we cannot ‘discuss’ what we agree on, right? 😉
I entirely agree that we need to raise children with morals. But the problem here is morals in this era of political correctness and age of right to rhetoric have moved into domain of ‘whatever could be justified is right‘, and have no longer remained the good-old kindness, empathy, sincerity and sense of responsibility. How do we expect the same parents who have relinquished their own morals (the way you and/or I perceive ‘morals’) to inculcate them into their children?
The problem with morality, as with so many other spheres of life, in my opinion, is that it has become a matter of proving to others rather than oneself! A simple question, if answered honestly–“Have I become a person I would love, or one I would hate” would help us go a long way. All this is of course, in line with what I wanted to state through my serial post–‘States of matter. State that matters.’
The problem quite paradoxically, is that we’ve started giving too much importance to how others perceive us, not pausing often enough to take a stock of what we think of ourselves!
me: I guess, you aren’t disagreeing with me – Rather further expanding on my thoughts. I might not have explicitly explained the above for the sake of the post becoming very long but yes this is excatly what I meant as well.
And since, we look outwardly for assessment of what we ourselves are, we become slaves to our images that we want others to perceive. This is the most unfortunate part. Not that you’ve not stated that, but I felt you’ve inappropriately labeled it as ‘capitalism’. Capitalism is indeed profit-oriented, but at least in theory, it seeks to achieve through efficiency and real innovation. I would’ve preferred a term like ‘consumerism’, maybe.
But still, consumerism doesn’t account for all the problems plaguing humanity.
Think of a second-year student ragging a fresher so badly that the latter commits suicide!…
…Now think of a doctor prescribing unnecessary investigations to a poor patient only to earn more money so that he could buy a new car to show off. Latter would clearly be consumerism. But what I want to point out that ragging and this piece of unethical practice have one thing fundamentally common–the need to be perceived as superior! The senior student wants to awe the junior and maybe impress some of the peers by how innovatively tyrannical he could be, whereas that doctor wishes to impress neighbors/peers.
Had both of them actually loved themselves and not been bothered by what others think of themselves, those immoral acts would not be committed. So here, I only wanted to make a fine distinction between need/want-driven consumerism v/s peer pressure-driven consumerism. The former’s detrimental effect/inappropriateness is somewhat debatable, but the latter is totally redundandant and dispensable.
me: Yeah Ketan, again I agree with all of this. But I don’t think that need/want – driven consumerism is debatable. I think it is as bad. A lot of times, we buy a lot of things not only under peer pressure but also just because we want it. For instance – a single girl (with no boyfriend) buying expensive branded lingerie – She’s fully aware that nobody’s gonna see it and she can’t show it off but yet she’ll just go and buy it because she WANTS it. There are a lot of such instances. People do not always buy a new phone to show it off, but also because they love it and want it. Of course, later then they do tend to also show it off as well.
But yes – the origin for both these behaviours lies in the desire to be percieved ‘superior’. I did not dwelve too much into the peer-pressure theory (but you’ll find a mention about it in one of my sentences) coz. I didn’t want to get onto two tracks but yes – I agree completely and you’ve put this more clearly than I could have 🙂 So actually, again, we aren’t disagreeing 🙂
Imagine, how much of resources are wasted only in attempt to keep up ephemeral images! If someone genuinely feels happy driving a new car, then possibly, they’re more justified in buying it as compared to doing so only to form an impression or make others envious. But the unfortunate fact is, a lot of what we buy hardly makes us happier! Otherwise, as you rightly pointed out, people would’ve not been buying so many new things all the time! 🙂
To simplify, most of my above comment was only my attempt to illustrate why parents or teachers don’t teach children morals.
Simply ‘cuz they themselved don’t believe in them!
Also, if you’d see this need to be seen as important would vanish when people start thinking for themselves.
A lot of our problems arise simply because we always ask others to think for us.
The problem with our education system is we think of it as some kind of formality. Imagine, till I turned 10, I used to think what’s the point of going to the school? Why do I have to copy down the crap written on blackboard? Why do I have to memorize boring things and vomit them out in exams? fortunately for me even at that age, I discovered that through education I could understand the world around me (mostly through science).
But imagine, the degree to which our education has been successful in dumbing down students that they no longer ask such questions!…
me: Again, I didn’t even veer into this territory coz. that would demand a whole new post since our schooling system is really very very bad.
…The reason most of the students study is ‘cuz they’d get play station or some such crappy thing if they get a particular score or rank!
Unfortunately, parents and teachers never understand that education is something more than daily ritual! So many parents push their children to study harder not because they think their getting first rank, say, in class III would enable them to become engineers or doctors or MBAs later on, but only again for perception-sake! If my child does well at school, people will be impressed with me! And if my child does badly, my ‘nose would be cut’!
We’ve totally forgotten that education is the means to make a better society, or probably, we never thought that way!
One of my friends, in our discussion regarding existence of God told me but all you speak of is science! How can we apply it to the outside world? The point I’m trying to make here is not regarding theism v/s atheism, but this deep-rooted perception that what we learn in school is a mere means to livelihood and is not to be applied in day-to-day life! And don’t get him wrong, this person is doing MD radiodiagnosis (the most difficult specialty to get into currently) from one of the best institutes in the country! But fortunately, he is still more independently thinking and a nice person than the average.
So probably, that’s why education (at least in India) is proving unsuccessful in improving the quality of humans. 😦
And personally, I don’t see trying to be ‘successful’ as a detriment to a good society. It becomes a detriment only when the terms of success are directly or indirectly dictated by others rather than ourselves! Someone’s criterion to success could be perfection or greater efficiency, or improving in a particular skill on a daily-basis, in which case it would actually be good! 🙂
Do go through a short post (click) of mine if you find time in this context. 🙂
me: Ketan, the definition of success that you’re talking about above and in that post is enjoyed by very few people. There are exceptions who believe that success has got nothing to do with bank balance and being popular but by enjoying the journey. There of course would be people like this as well and I think, I’m slowly making progress to that stage. (The proof is I declined a more lucrative job offer to stay where I am. The primary reasons were – I enjoy what I’m doing right now and I don’t slog at work, as is obvious from my addiction to blogging. I wasn’t sure whether the new job would be able to fulfill both these needs of mine). But still I’ve a long way to go to restrict my consumerist tendencies and am working on that. But for the majority, success is defined by others and that’s exactly what I was referring to in my post.
Okay, this might not be the best thing to say here, but I decided to become a doctor not to serve humanity, but because it was the safest career option that was technically closest to my academic love–cell biology! But down the line, I truly discovered that I had the potential to influence many lives in a positive way…
me: Given your thought process, I’m sure down the line you will come around influencing lives in a positive way. Of course, you got to work towards your satisfaction and then once you’ve discovered that, you can fulfill your responsibilities
…Though I’m very likely to become a ‘nonpracticing’ professional owing to the nature of my academic interests.
Also, I believe you’re academically much more connected to microeconomics, and understand the world’s economic problems better than I do. I would like your opinion on my comments on another blog here (click). Again, the comment would seem quite out of context to that post, but is actually very much related (though more analytical than emotional as compared to your post here) to the issues you’ve raised and is specifically in response to Stupidosaur’s response to phatichar! 🙂
me: Ketan, Stupidosaur’s brilliant response and your response were highly analytical but yes, yours was basically again a technical tangent to this post, I think. (I’m pleasantly surprised with your economics, seriously :)) But again, I think at the bottom of it all is still the Greed – Like when you said that the baker wouldn’t ideally give the loaf of bread for free coz. it was produced automatically, it is the same thing at the bottom – What else could he do with the loaf of bread – Exchange it for something he doesn’t need. So, I guess even a technical analysis would still point to the exact same ‘Human’ issue.
Your last paragraph was most moving!
I’m very happy you came out with this post. Yes indeed, starting with the next generation is the right way to start, but maybe where I differ from you is in being more cynical (conservative in my expectations of ‘positive’ results) than you! Again, sorry for such a long comment, but that was again in my largely trying to delineate some of the subtle issues involved here. Hope you won’t mind! 🙂
me: Ketan, I think I’ve had enough of being cynical – It doesn’t help anybody. No seriously. I guess, India has become too cynical now. Everyone thinks – It is not an ideal world, I alone can’t change anything, or Is se kya hoga?. But then I feel like a hypocrite talking about such stuff, writing such posts and doing nothing about it. So Yes, I’ve had enough of being cynical. It might be hard and sometimes you might make a fool out of urself in front of the hip crowd, but that’s a very small price to pay in return for some real change.
And with regards to the long comment, at times it feels nice to be inebriated with such posts and comments. I saw inebriated coz. a lot of people (and even myself on another day) would find this post and discussions so crazy but I enjoyed every bit of it. Cheers *hic* I’m almost drunk on idealism right now :)Thanks for making the cocktail stronger 🙂
Wish to see more such posts coming from you!
TC.
Nice one, Rakesh. Perhaps starting with the next generation is the way to go. And based on what I have seen of children today, the kids of this country (completely the Play Station generation) are so far down the wrong road it may be difficult to pull them back.
Your idea for a solution is perhaps one of the better ones, but the realist in me already sees the next generation as lost. I hope I am wrong, but I doubt it!
Cheers,
Quirky Indian
me: I hope you’re wrong too 😦 But still, I guess, lets start somewhere. I think kids are like sponges and they just absorb what is around them. Just see how strong a few values of ‘women being inferior than men’, or ‘women are supposed to take care of the house’, are imbibed in people. This is a result of a lot of conditioning over centuries. Why can’t we similarly start conditioning future generations to be good. I know, the comparison is farfetched and there could be a whole new discussion on ‘Why do people find it easy to be bad but so difficult to be good?’ but basically that’s the idea I am trying to push.
Wonderful post … even if there was no humour !!!!
Quite an amazing world we have developed.. I always feel stifled… this rat race… or as you call it the desire to succeed…
the so called superior humans have created a world which is most weird… our kids need 25 years to train to survive in this world… to be successful… how much are we twisting Darwin’s theory of survival of the fittest eh.. !! survival of only us.. !!!!
success is only measured by the bank balance the position we hold in the society.. which is the most hopeless benchmark… and as much as we hate it we must set ourselves against…
I loved this post and although I aint able to properly conjure my thoughts at this moment with my capitalist boss moving around…. I will be back… coz I have a lot on this to say… !!! 🙂
me: Surprised you found this boring post interesting. But yeah, I’ve seen a huge naturalist in you so then again, I’m not surprised.
And as to your boss, surely it isn’t such a bad thing as it might sound but the problem starts when we lose balance. Do come back 🙂
is it the image that I have !! lol… !!
but I hate this rat race… I wrote very early when I started out about this… its amateur just when I started.. no one read me then… but still : http://hitchwriter.wordpress.com/2008/09/26/rat-race/
somewhat connected to this..
me: Oops. pasted the comment there instead of here – Again: Yeah Dhiren, lovely post. How skewed is the idea of fun and happiness taught to us. Everyone told me that the toughest part in CA is the exams. But now I realise that the exams were the easiest part.
Life is about being good – being good to your classmates, being good to your neighbours, being respectful to every human being including the maid in your house, the janitor who cleans your bathrooms and even the dumb guy in your team who doesn’t know how to hold a bat.
Terrific!! Loved this post!!
It’s not easy/possible to be happy if we are in competition with the world, better marks, better clothes, better gizmos can’t make happiness, because there will always be someone who has something we can’t have.
In fact it is very unfortunate if someone associates happiness with possessions, and doesn’t look for it within oneself. Like I am happy if I have written what I consider a good post (- even if you disagree ;))
me: 🙂 IHM, whatever I say, you know I love
you…err your posts i meanWhen a misty morning or a good cup of tea can make us happy we are more likely to live a happy life then if we need to compare the view from our house to the view from neighbour’s house !
The Play Station etc might need a little more explaining, and some convincing… Perhaps other healthier options, like playing football and guitar instead.
Unfortunately a lot of parents take pride in these things…
Here’s something positive Bhagwad shared in a comment, it should make you feel positive,
me: will take a look. Thanks 🙂
Thank God you warned about the lack of humour 😆
😆 !!!!
😆 IHM is there Karl Marx in here? I can’t take another dose of Marx bcoz I have a husband who sings bhajan about Marx… 😥
Rakesh am scared about the word Capitalism…my young brain is scarred for life after marrying his chela you see 😦
me: No no, it is a very simple post, no big names in there. And am not really against capitalism but the croony kind of it
The generational divide is something which is something no one has control. No matter what and how a parent pass something onto his next generation, will be put to use or shunned depending on the individual and his/her surrounding. For example, people who left India (Pakistan) and settled across globe during 60s-80s have their generation behaving in extreme ways. Pakis who bombed London in 2005 were in 20s and radicals. Their parents and the locality was shocked. None of those Pakis parents ever imagined they would have to go through that shame. And trust me, they all taught their children the good values and rituals that is norm in sub continent. So, where did they go wrong? And they were all studying in good schools/colleges.
So, I say the education, forced to get first rank and pressure to opt for doc/engg courses do not necessarily determine how well/bad the outcome will be.
Well, what I feel is that you have written this keeping those parents/children, education and system which you had access to, the one which you experienced or observed. Mostly the middle and above class of scenarios.
Of course, teaching morality from early is better idea, but I do not agree to the fact it will be perceived or taken the way you taught by the child when he/she grows up. They will definitely absorb what you teach, but it can be easily squeezed out in a second. Could be many reason for that.
me: Yeah Vee, I understand your point of view but as you said, I’ve written about what I see around me that people don’t make enough effort to condition their kids to be good. with regards to ranks and getting good careers, I meant that why can’t that effort be made to make kids understand humanity better. Because, parents themselves think that money is important first and then all this unimportant stuff about morals.
And yes, I guess, that is another issue that I wonder about – Why are people so attracted to bad rather than good?
Very, very interesting. And I can see it’s spawned a debate of sorts 🙂 I am totally in agreement with you (this time:)
So much of the success quotient is placed on attainment of ‘things’ and not ‘values;, that I shudder to think how much more ruthless we can get as generations pass. I hope to God more parents start thinking like you, so that we have better human beings in the future. Who can step out of the rat race to help a fellow rat who’s fallen behind. Coincidentally, I was talking to my sis in India today and we were discussing my niece. I’m glad I read this…I found the answer to a lot of her questions and forwarded this to her. Thanks 🙂
BTW, this shows an evolved, sensitive side that tells me at least you were brought up right 🙂
me: ‘evolved’ You thought I still was a gorilla just coz. I liked Wanted and Pulp Fiction? 😆
Errr…I have got to stop judging people by the movies they like 😉
Amazing post, and really well written.
Even I feel shocked (and disappointed) when I see the shallowness which mars the so-called Gen-X of India. The problem probably is not that they want more money in their lives or want branded stuff, the problem is the sheer indifference they have towards their surroundings. The problem is that most of them are so self-absorbed that they can’t think of anything or anyone outside of themselves. As you said, for most of them, life is JUST about getting the new swanky mobile in the shop or the cool new car in town. When life becomes all about just earning and spending, earning and spending, it leads to a sorry situation.
But then I don’t think having more wealth or having more empathy is an Either/Or situation. So I would partially disagree with you when you say that people should stop trying to be more successful and be better human beings. Yes, if you do drop out of the rate race, you definitely would have more time to reflect on the ‘other’ (and as per you and me, more important) aspects of life. But still, I think it would be unfair to label every successful person as selfish and numb.
me: No no Reb, I’m not labelling every successful person as selfish and numb.
On a separate note, I think we all need and crave for attention. (And I would strongly strongly disagree with you if you chose to counter that statement :P). Now we can get that attention either by doing good to others; or by earning more wealth, buying a Rolex and a Ferrari, and placing these things out for others to see and admire; or by doing a bit of both. It is easy to see which one is the easier way, and which one do most people opt for. Creating a layer of ‘exclusivity’ around you by flying business class or by wearing Jimmy Choo shoes not just gets you that attention that you crave for, but also gives you comfort. While doing good to others (and not aspiring for wealth on the way) gets you only attention, and not many comforts. No wonder most of mankind loves and adores the idea of capitalism/consumerism.
me: I know its very long but if you read KP’s comments and my replies, it has raised the issues that you’re talking about in the above paragraph 🙂
So in theory I fully agree with every word of what you have said. But in practice, I think both you and I know things are not going to change in the direction we want them to.
me: I’ve decided not to be cynical anymore 🙂
Fantastic post,Rakesh! Here I was thinking you would be coming up with the next review,instead you have made sit up and shake myself up with this thought provoking post.
Yes,life is not just about materialistic things .Its so much more about ensuring our children imbibe the right values and morals.
“We have to start telling them that all those advertisements on TV are just advertisements.They don’t mean the world.”
Now,I’m not sure how I’m going to convince Namnam to believing that though ‘cos adverts are what keeping my house running!! 😆
me: Well, a man’s gotta do what he’s gotta do !
Dude, the latté at Costa is better than Starbucks! 😉
LOL ;-D
I said LOL here :-(….where have u dafnafied my precious comments
I came here earlier this week, read the post & it remineded me of a post I read the previous week, so I left briefly with the intention of getting this link & posting it here….and got diverted 😛
So here’s the link….I loved this article
http://thotflow.blogspot.com/2009/10/why-dont-indians-give-back-to-society.html
I do hope u’ll go thru the comments and chk out mine coz I practically echoed some of the points u have mentioned above 🙂
And not the least, thank u for a very thinking post 🙂
me: hmm, was an interesting post that one… Yeah, there may be a relation between the way we want everything for ourselves and that is why we seldom find the drive to give to others…
Oh my goodness, where did my looooooooong comment go 😦
err…nancy…was the above comment your so-called ‘looooooooong’ comment?
huh…..compared to the length of ur comment mine qualifies as an essay ;-/
when a rich girl does not have all the goodies what money can buy with her salary she runs to daddy to stuff her and her son’s stockings — i am seeing it happen. they want it all – the latest gadget and the latest car – that is success for them.
and people who thinks otherwise is not considered normal or called a ‘gandhi ‘!
me: yeah, I’ve heard this about being ‘Gandhi’ ! 🙂 I wish there were more of Gandhis !
Rakesh, where r my comments??????
I must written atleast 5-6 loooooooong comment….where r they??????
oh well I’ll cut the exaggeration…but I swear there were atleast 3 comments 😦
me: he he you realised that I could go to spam and check 🙂
When I’ll come back in the evening to check u better make sure they are there or I’m gonna stage a dharna out here
me: Baniyas Road – You can sit opposite my office bldg in the lawn – it is a nice place. And kids can also play around 🙂 Just lemme know, I’ll have someone send coffee for you ! Or are you on a hunger strike? 😆
Thank goodness u found my comments….I was wondering how I was going to juggle a doctors appointment and this dharna together 😀
As it is, I get very little time on the net nowadays[kids have exams] so it makes me mad when the comments I so painstakingly submit get lost somewhere :-P.
me: Just look at my first widget on the top right – 1 more comment and it would be a white wash 🙂
Btw, don’t your comments look silly now that the originals are also back in place ‘dafnafied’ and all 😆
And doctors appointment?
hrrrmmmpppffff….bade hi shaki mijaaaz ke ho huh
me: lol, you gotta add ‘aap’ in front of bade hi… sounds very 70s romantic 😀 he he…
precisely why I didnt bother ;-D
this wordpress is all nonsense I’m trying to put this comment in tht “oh well I’ll cut the exaggeration…but I swear there were atleast 3 comments” place and it places itself right down
p.s: pls delete 2nd repeated comment. people might begin to think I’m taking over ur page or something:-P
Nancy, we don’t need to think anymore. It is quite apparent 😉
Guess we’ll just stand by the side lines.
me: 😆
very funny 😀
Hi! There’s a new post I have done, where I would like your comments.
Direct Democracy in India: a Possibility? (click)
Thanks!
Take care.
Hi bother…ur blog is nice…keep up the good job 🙂
sorry a correction – Hi brother
:O
Really a loooooong serious post with even longggggggger comments
Phewwwww
Sometimes we want to do something good…but we have some other responsibilities… and sometimes we don’t have the right resource or power…or sometimes lack of knowledge how to do it. But instead of getting in to complication of ‘I want to do’ …one should think about ‘what I can do’. If you see a poor kid and give him some food…that is also a good deed. Even if you can’t take care of that kid for life time at least you’ve taken care of his one meal.
I’d read a story long time back… don’t remember it word to word…but it was something like this.
Because of some reason a lot of fishes got thrown out of sea and were lying in heaps on the sore… suffering. Many people were gathered there and they were watching this scene with amusement while a small kid was trying to save the fishes by taking them back to sea… one by one in his small hands. People started laughing at him. Some one went and advised the kid- “you won’t be able to save all of them… your efforts not gonna make much difference in this situation”. The kid replied – “It will make difference at least in this one’s life” – looking at the fish in his hands.
me: Yeah, it is a nice story. I’ve heard it!
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